Do you know your constant soul mate? Have you ever wonder who might be your constant soul mate? Or can you tell if your partner or spouse right now is your soul mate?
These are people who believe that loyalty, being there for the other is a way of improving themselves. These people complement one another--though not in a romantic way such that neither of them have to lead the other. They are on equal footing in their relationship. It is as if they can completely empathize with one another such that they can almost blend into one being. Constantly demonstrate their love by such things as keeping the house clean, making dinner, running errands for their mates, or bringing home the paycheck. These are the soul mates who would never allow themselves to go outside of their relationship for sexual gratification.
They are faithful, loyal, and true to their loves.
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He's a Paradox!
Are you going nuts trying to figure out your guy? If he says he loves you but hardly goes out with you, should you believe him?
The answer is ... drum rolls please... he may be telling the truth. Normally, a guy who loves a girl will want to be with her as often as he can be. But according to psychologists, a guy may be in love with you, but he may be hesitant about going out with you for several reasons. Among these are: he is apprehensive to let you see him "up close and personal" because you might discover something about him that may turn you off. It could also be that he hasn't got much money and he is afraid that he might not please you. Another reason could be that although he loves you, he feels he's not yet ready for a hundred percent commitment.
If you're bothered by the unusual set-up, have a heart-to-heart talk with the guy. Assure him that he can be open with you. After he's opened up, you can decide if he's for real or if he's just playing with your feelings.
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The answer is ... drum rolls please... he may be telling the truth. Normally, a guy who loves a girl will want to be with her as often as he can be. But according to psychologists, a guy may be in love with you, but he may be hesitant about going out with you for several reasons. Among these are: he is apprehensive to let you see him "up close and personal" because you might discover something about him that may turn you off. It could also be that he hasn't got much money and he is afraid that he might not please you. Another reason could be that although he loves you, he feels he's not yet ready for a hundred percent commitment.
If you're bothered by the unusual set-up, have a heart-to-heart talk with the guy. Assure him that he can be open with you. After he's opened up, you can decide if he's for real or if he's just playing with your feelings.
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Confronting an Anorexic Friend
You suspect that something's wrong about your friend's eating habits. Deep down inside you, you just know that she might be a borderline anorexic. You are in a quandary: should I confront her or not? The answer, dear lady is, yes. Confront her but do so in the proper way. Here's how...
• Confront her in private if you really feel that her eating habit has gone unhealthy. Don't be judgmental so that she can open up to you.
• Don't jump the gun by saying, "I think you are anorexic!" Instead, cushion the blow by saying something like, "This is just a concerned observation, because I really care for you..."
• Be specific so that she can't deny and so that she will realize just what you really mean. Cite the time she forced herself to vomit or the fact that she checks her measurements three times a day!
• Know where to stop. Even if you are sincerely concerned, you have no right to run your friend's life for her. It is enough that you call her attention a couple of times. Beyond that, she makes the decisions. Before giving us on her, you can suggest that she seek professional help.
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• Confront her in private if you really feel that her eating habit has gone unhealthy. Don't be judgmental so that she can open up to you.
• Don't jump the gun by saying, "I think you are anorexic!" Instead, cushion the blow by saying something like, "This is just a concerned observation, because I really care for you..."
• Be specific so that she can't deny and so that she will realize just what you really mean. Cite the time she forced herself to vomit or the fact that she checks her measurements three times a day!
• Know where to stop. Even if you are sincerely concerned, you have no right to run your friend's life for her. It is enough that you call her attention a couple of times. Beyond that, she makes the decisions. Before giving us on her, you can suggest that she seek professional help.
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